Tired of people treating me like an idiot

I've realized that all of my life people generally think I have no clue of what I am talking about, and then they are floored when something I say or do proves correct.

I spend the majority of time having to prove myself. For once I want to hear someone say, "let's do it your way." without hesitation. Instead, I get "I do believe in you, it's just that you are wrong."

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